A place on the tree
Telling your spouse about a same-sex sexual experience
Sharing a past sexual experience with someone of the same sex can feel especially vulnerable within a marriage. A spouse’s accepting response may allow the disclosure to become part of the couple’s intimacy rather than a source of distance.
1 person has stood here
Does this feel close to something you’ve lived? Tell your own part. What you tell becomes your Ember, and it stays yours.
Nearby on the tree
- Questioning your sexual orientation while married3
- Questioning sexual orientation after same-sex experiences2
- Wanting to cross-dress when your spouse disapproves1
- Opening a marriage to address sexual incompatibility1
- Avoiding sex after making a partner uncomfortable1
- Facing your spouse having a child with another partner1
Only the place shows here. What people told stays theirs.