A place on the tree

Wanting to tell an estranged ex about a terminal illness

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Does this feel close to something you’ve lived? Tell your own part. What you tell becomes one page, yours to keep.

The situation

A terminal diagnosis can create a painful wish to tell an estranged former partner, even when contact has ended and reaching out may feel unsafe.

What it’s like

The desire to say goodbye or be understood can conflict with protecting oneself from rejection, retaliation, or false concern.