A place on the tree
Uncertainty about who should pay on a first date
A first date can leave someone unsure whether the bill should be split or paid by one person. The uncertainty can feel more significant when the other person does not offer to contribute or acknowledge the payment.
1 person has stood here
Does this feel close to something you’ve lived? Tell your own part. What you tell becomes your Ember, and it stays yours.
Nearby on the tree
- Going on a first date and making a romantic connection1
- Struggling to accept financial help from a romantic partner1
- Going on a first date while living as a transgender woman1
- Having a crush and debating whether to ask them out3
- Trying to understand mixed signals from someone you are dating1
- Feeling awkward after asking someone out and being rejected1
Only the place shows here. What people told stays theirs.