A place on the tree
Loving a partner while feeling unready for marriage
A person loves their partner and can imagine a future together but does not feel ready to marry. The desire to be honest about that hesitation is complicated by fear of disappointing the partner or losing the relationship.
1 person has stood here
Does this feel close to something you’ve lived? Tell your own part. What you tell becomes your Ember, and it stays yours.
Nearby on the tree
- Loving someone who says they love you but avoids commitment3
- Considering marriage when parents disapprove of your partner1
- Being in love with two people at the same time2
- Agreeing to move for a partner’s job despite not wanting to1
- Loving a close friend who is already in a relationship3
- Loving a close friend without knowing if they feel the same6
Only the place shows here. What people told stays theirs.