Loving someone who says they love you but avoids commitment
6 people have stood here
Ask what they went through
Ember has listened to everyone who stood here. Answers come from all of them together, never from any one.
Or start with one people asked here
Going through this yourself?
Ember thinks it through with you, wherever you start.
Nearby on the tree
- Trying to understand mixed signals from someone you are dating9
- Feeling unloved despite giving everything in relationships12
- Wanting intimacy from a partner who does not reciprocate16
- Being romantically involved with someone you have never met6
- Having your feelings dismissed by someone you are dating12
- Fearing the loss of a loved one to serious illness6
Only the place shows here. What people told stays theirs.
How this page works
What can I ask here?
What the people who stood here went through: what they tried, what changed, what came after. Type your own question, or take one that someone here asked before you.
Where do the answers come from?
From the people who stood here. Each of them told Ember what happened to them; Ember reads all of it together and answers only with what at least two of them share. No sentence is one person’s story.
Why didn’t my question get an answer?
Nobody here has been through that part yet, or only one person has. The answer grows as more people stand here.
What does “stood here” mean?
Each of them told Ember something that happened to them, and their page was placed on this light. The pages stay theirs; only the count is public.
What happens if I tell my part?
You get one clear page of what happened, in your words, yours to keep. Nobody sees it. If Ember later finds one person who lived something close, it asks you first whether you want it to ask them.
