I was dating and fell in love with a girl. We chatted every day, but she wanted me to message her every day and every time. I started wondering whether that was really good for us.
At first, I really wanted to share everything with her, so messaging every day felt natural. But sometimes I have work and other things to deal with. I get busy and do not have time to reply, and then it becomes a fight between us. I do not like that.
It made me feel a bit depressed. We talked about it when we were calm, and she said she only wanted to know whether I missed her or was thinking about her. Without a message, she feels unsafe. I can understand that feeling, but it is still very hard for me to keep doing it all the time.
I was dating and fell in love with a girl. We chatted every day, but she wanted me to message her every day and every time. I started wondering whether that was really good for us.
At first, I really wanted to share everything with her, so messaging every day felt natural. But sometimes I have work and other things to deal with. I get busy and do not have time to reply, and then it becomes a fight between us. I do not like that.
It made me feel a bit depressed. We talked about it when we were calm, and she said she only wanted to know whether I missed her or was thinking about her. Without a message, she feels unsafe. I can understand that feeling, but it is still very hard for me to keep doing it all the time.
