What people bring
Writing about the situations people bring to Ember — and how it went for the people who stood in them.

What people bring
My partner lies, then blames me: how did people know to end it?
Caught a partner lying, and somehow it became your fault? What people who stood here asked on Ember: when to end it, what to face sooner, doubting yourself.
Ember Editorial Team
What people bring
I fell out of love, but they still love me: how did people know?
Feelings gone after too much happened, while they still love you? What people who stood here asked on Ember: knowing it's over, promises, guilt, self-blame.
Ember Editorial Team
What people bring
Can't find work after losing your job: what people got stuck on
Lost your job and the search isn't working, even with experience? What people who stood here asked on Ember: what they got stuck on, which bills to pay, self-doubt.
Ember Editorial Team
What people bring
Everything going wrong at once, with no one to lean on
Several serious problems at once and no one to rely on? What people who stood here asked on Ember: what the problem seemed to be, what kept them going, what shifted.
Ember Editorial Team
What people bring
Can't afford to quit an exhausting job: what did people try?
Stuck in a job that's wearing you down because you need the money? What people who stood here asked on Ember: keeping going, ways out, why leaving felt impossible.
Ember Editorial Team
What people bring
Does grief ever get lighter? What people who lost someone close said
Does grief get easier? What people grieving someone close asked on Ember: a heavier second year, losing more than one person, and feeling you should have done more.
Ember Editorial Team
What people bring
Still loving an ex who won't change: how did people let go?
Still love an ex whose drinking, drugs or hurtful behavior won't stop? What people who stood here asked on Ember: coping, being pulled back, leaving for good.
Ember Editorial Team
What people bring
Guilt after setting boundaries with a parent: does it go away?
Pulled back from a parent and the guilt came anyway? What 8 people who stood here asked on Ember: why they stepped back, and what the guilt was like.
Ember Editorial Team
What people bring
Caring for an aging parent who treats you badly: setting limits
Your aging parent needs you, and still treats you badly. What 9 people who stood here asked on Ember: when they set a limit, and how the guilt went.
Ember Editorial Team
What people bring
Leaving a hostile relationship: tell them first, or go quietly?
Planning to leave a relationship that turned hostile? What 15 people who stood here asked on Ember: did they confront, tell first, or go quietly.
Ember Editorial Team
What people bring
My partner moved out and won't talk to me: how others coped
They moved out and the silence started. What 5 people who stood here asked on Ember, and how the days, the kids and the silence went for them.
Ember Editorial Team
What people bring
How to stop falling back into old habits: what helped others
Afraid a hard month will pull you back into old ways? What 5 people who stood here asked on Ember, and how staying on track went for them.
Ember Editorial Team