What would it realistically take to rebuild trust and financial safety in this marriage after this betrayal?

Still waiting for a close experienceWaitingAsked 1d ago

My husband hid major debts and risky financial decisions from me while I was working to build our shared future. I am considering using my savings to help repair the damage, but I do not know whether I could ever feel safe trusting him with money again.

2 Embers

Still waiting for a close experience

2 real experiences may help with one part while Ember keeps looking for someone who’s lived something closer.

2 real experiences are here. These aren’t public posts. Tell Ember your part; if this question genuinely relates to what you’ve lived, you’ll be able to read them.