A place on the tree

Wanting to be sexually humiliated in front of family

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Does this feel close to something you’ve lived? Tell your own part. What you tell becomes your Ember, and it stays yours.

The situation

Wanting a sexual experience in which another person humiliates or dominates you while family members know about or witness it can combine arousal with shame and fear of lasting consequences.

What it’s like

The desire may conflict with the wish to protect family relationships and reputation.