A place on the tree

Wanting extreme sexual humiliation despite fear of lasting injury

1 person has stood here

Does this feel close to something you’ve lived? Tell your own part. What you tell becomes your Ember, and it stays yours.

The situation

A long-held desire for extreme sexual humiliation can become frightening when a proposed encounter may involve severe pain, lasting injury, or loss of control.

What it’s like

The person is caught between wanting the experience and hesitating over whether it is safe to consent.