A place on the tree

Wanting anal sex when your partner does not

Wanting anal sex while a partner does not can leave the desire unresolved, especially when the refusal is accepted but the fantasy remains. The couple must hold both respect for consent and an ongoing wish for something the other person does not want.

1 person has stood here

Does this feel close to something you’ve lived? Tell your own part. What you tell becomes your Ember, and it stays yours.

Nearby on the tree

Only the place shows here. What people told stays theirs.