Realizing an ex is keeping you as a backup
6 people have stood here
Ask what they went through
Ember has listened to everyone who stood here. Answers come from all of them together, never from any one.
Or ask one people asked here
Going through this yourself?
Ember thinks it through with you, wherever you start.
Nearby on the tree
- Waiting for an ex to reach out after a breakup14
- Losing a relationship while still wanting closeness10
- Still having feelings for an ex18
- Still wanting to return to an abusive relationship11
- Staying in an emotionally abusive relationship hoping they will change18
- Waiting for a partner to come back after leaving8
Only the place shows here. What people told stays theirs.
How this page works
What can I ask here?
What the people who stood here went through: what they tried, what changed, what came after. Type your own question, or take one that someone here asked before you.
Where do the answers come from?
From the people who stood here. Each of them told Ember what happened to them; Ember reads all of it together and answers only with what at least two of them share. No sentence is one person’s story.
Why didn’t my question get an answer?
Nobody here has been through that part yet, or only one person has. The answer grows as more people stand here.
What does “stood here” mean?
Each of them told Ember something that happened to them, and their page was placed on this light. The pages stay theirs; only the count is public.
What happens if I tell my part?
You get one clear page of what happened, in your words, yours to keep. Nobody sees it. If Ember later finds one person who lived something close, it asks you first whether you want it to ask them.
