A place on the tree
Having mismatched sexual desire and unequal orgasms
Partners want sexual release at very different frequencies, and sex repeatedly satisfies one partner while the other rarely orgasms. The relationship can include regular sex while still leaving a persistent imbalance in desire and sexual fulfillment.
1 person has stood here
Does this feel close to something you’ve lived? Tell your own part. What you tell becomes your Ember, and it stays yours.
Nearby on the tree
- Arguing with a partner about mismatched sexual desire2
- Wanting sex from a spouse who no longer wants it4
- Opening a marriage to address sexual incompatibility1
- Disagreeing with a partner about how often to communicate2
- Avoiding sex after making a partner uncomfortable1
- Feeling emotionally disconnected in an otherwise stable marriage2
Only the place shows here. What people told stays theirs.