A place on the tree
Feeling unable to set boundaries with family members who need emotional support
Repeatedly being turned to for emotional support can leave a person caring about family members while feeling emotionally exhausted and unable to say what they can realistically keep giving. The tension comes from wanting to remain supportive without carrying problems that the other person must ultimately face themselves.
1 person has stood here
Does this feel close to something you’ve lived? Tell your own part. What you tell becomes your Ember, and it stays yours.
Nearby on the tree
- Setting boundaries with a friend who relies on you for emotional support1
- Feeling unwanted by family despite trying to stay close3
- Feeling overwhelmed by family problems3
- Being unable to say no and overcommitting yourself2
- Staying in a supportive conversation while feeling overwhelmed1
- Unable to lend money to a friend who needs help1
Only the place shows here. What people told stays theirs.