A place on the tree
Being unable to lend money to a friend
A close friend asks for financial help, but you cannot afford to lend what they need. Caring about the friendship while needing to be honest about your limits can make refusing feel like a painful form of rejection.
1 person has stood here
Does this feel close to something you’ve lived? Tell your own part. What you tell becomes your Ember, and it stays yours.
Nearby on the tree
- Being emotionally affected by a friend's changing moods1
- Being the only one who keeps a friendship going2
- Overcommitting by saying yes to everyone1
- Facing a car breakdown you cannot afford to repair1
- Feeling trapped in exhausting work because you need the income1
- Being in love with a close friend who sees you as family1
Only the place shows here. What people told stays theirs.